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All about Miss. Ethel Sludge and family.
I have seen this daguerreotype before today.........This charming image of Ethel Sludge “Oil-Eyes-Ethel”, one of the most famous of the early Texan oil heiresses.
Readers will surely know that she was the great-great Aunt of........
|.....the delightful Pamela Ewing.|
(Note: Pam is wearing her great-great aunt's earings)
I let my train of thought wander.....
|...actually its a through train, |
but its all Google could come up with.
It set me reminiscing...................
|...do you remember the 80s when we watched TV in the evenings?|
|....was J.R. a sweet natured man? No hang-ups?|
|....he looked it sometimes.|
Or was he..........
|....really like Narcissus?|
(What Narcissus Really Saw, after Caravannio)
With fear I recalled......
.........a person who gave me a considerable email bashing a couple of weeks ago, and which through my own silly fault I compounded by bothering to reply. I had to wonder why she was so bothered to try to offend me, and then go on to lecture me as if she was a professional tutor and I was some poor little lad sent to her to improve my social skills. You know the type of person..."I'm a very busy person..."...implying that the rest of us are lazy thick old toads.
|Me being defragmented.|
....she did teach me one good lesson (actually I already knew it but am always tempted to forget):
DO NOT reply to a rude or sarcastic email.
and although I did not advise her so, I will ask you now:
“Please don’t send emails to me when you have had a few drinks” (especially if it’s still 10am your time !)
Wondering if JR and my attacker shared a trait.....
.......I Googled “Self importance” It seemed seemed a good idea. A sort of on-line health check. Was it me who had a problem, or the person who digitally hit me? Which of us had a chip on our shoulder? Why was I so megabitten by her? Why was she such a Tera-RAM?
I discovered the problem of self importance really exists as Narcissistic Personality Disorder, NPD.
I also have to say, honestly, that it made most interesting reading on Wikipedia. I was able to reflect on all and many spats I have had with people over time, face to face, or in correspondence, and wonder if I, he/she, or both of us were the sufferers. But I will be the judge of that, and I’m not going to share the judgment with you !
The more worrying thing....
.........is that researchers have suggested that the incidence of NPD has more than doubled in the US in the prior 10 years, and that 1 in 16 of the population have experienced NPD. (One has to assume that such conclusions might be applied to similar economies and western cultures, so this is not a dig at US Sepians!).
|They have PH.D.s, they must be smart...|
It has been suggested that the cause of this may be social networking online......
.........if its true, we are all on the slippery path. Beware!
Thank you Oil-Eyes-Ethel.....for enabling my travel down this interesting route.
Ethel Sludge died in Devon, England, in 1945.
She never returned to Texas.
(simulation image of her now hidden grave)
All my life I have wanted to know Ethel Sludge better.
When I was a six year old (1956 say) we used to go and visit my great uncle and aunt who lived on Beesands, a quite remote village and beach in Devon. They lived in a nice house, Sunnydale, conveniently converted during WWII by the US Army into a concrete pill-box, and very much still containing many tons of concrete that Uncle Percy never did chip away by the time he died.
|Beesands, early 1900s. Sunnydale, the house at the farthest end of the beach., by the quarry.|
(Own collection..post card)
The beach was adjacent to, and operationally part of, the next beach Slapton Sands, which was in 1944 part of the site of the ill-fated Exercise Tiger. and Exercise Fabius. These were exercises practicing the forthcoming Normandy Landings by elements of the 1st Infantry Division and 29th Infantry Division (United States).
|Torcross and Slapton Sands.|
A postcard by J Salmon Ltd, circa 1920s, from an original water colour drawing by A.R.Quinton
Behind Beesands there was a sign by a patch of derelict farmland: "Ethyl Sludge is buried here" and as we passed I always asked my Dad who Ethel Sludge was. I suppose it amused my parents. Eventually I got the correct message, but to this day I always think of dear Ethel when I recall Devon.
Presumably it was a dumping ground created when the US military emptied their fuel supplies and sediments as they cleared the area after the war, ready to hand back to the evacuated population.